During the debut party of my
college friend, a boy around 10 years old took my attention. He was quite playful.
He moved anywhere and played anything that catches his attention—he even licked the
chocolate fountain displayed in public! In short, his attitude seemed not to fit
on his age.
In the midst of the celebration, I
asked the debutante, who is a relative of the boy, if he has some kind of mental
disability. And I was right! She told me that the kid was diagnosed to have an
ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) which according
to National Institutes of Health, is characterized by difficulty in staying
focused and paying attention, difficulty controlling behavior, and being hyper.
I terribly felt sad deep inside. Some people looked at him with disgust and humiliation,
but I’m convinced it was never his
fault.
Then another person
came into the scene; her mother. She was trying to control the behavior of her
child as she cleaned the boy’s clothing and chocolate-smeared face. It must be
really hard taking care of a stubborn special child like him. But then I couldn’t
see a hint of hardship on her face, instead, an overflowing essence of a mother’s
love.
We can relate the
mother-and-child scene to our Christian life. Our father in heaven is actually
the strongest and most patient parent of all. Know why? Because He’s taking
care billions of special children! (You know what I meant). That is right, we are all ADHD children,
Christians or non-Christians. It is our very nature to seek and hold on to
things that catches our attention. We dwell on things which makes us feel comfortable
and happy without considering the warnings and instructions of our Father. In
Jeremiah 7:24 which says “But they did not listen or pay
attention; instead, they followed the stubborn inclinations of their evil
hearts. They went backward and not forward,” the prophet illustrated symptoms
of an ADHD child—being stubborn and not paying attention to God. He also mentioned
that hard-headed people move backwards; not straining forward and not growing spiritually.
However, just like
the said disability, it was never our fault why we were born sinful in nature (We
can’t undo what Adam and Eve did on the Garden of Eden, instead pay the price
of their downfall). But the love of our Father is overflowing that He still
cared for us. Just like the mother, God never ceased in giving us attention and
giving us instructions of life. He made the bible for us; He tapped people to
direct us in our paths; He used circumstances to change our perspectives—all of
these things shows His unending love and care for us. The good news is, ADHD
can be cured overtime. You only need a couple of therapies to take! But the
cure of spiritual ADHD? It’s in 2 Timothy 3:14-15, “But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become
convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, and how from infancy you have known the Holy
Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in
Christ Jesus.” Keep reading and obeying God’s
instructions through the Bible. Another one: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the
renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s
will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will (Romans 12:2).”
Stop being hyper
and attention-seeker! Grow up and be transformed for His glory. And if you have
overcame Spiritual ADHD, don’t judge those who under this circumstance.
Remember you were once like them, show instead care and affection just as our
Father in heaven cares for them. How? Share God’s word and power!